
BEAVER DAM, Wis. — John Straseskie tried to comfort the family of a Marine killed in Iraq on Thanksgiving.
The Beaver Dam man understands the family’s pain: In May, he lost his son, 23-year-old Sgt. Kirk Straseskie, who became the first Wisconsin service member killed in Iraq.
When he heard the news of Pfc. Ryan Cantafio, he drove across town to visit Cantafio’s family. Cantafio, 22, died when his Humvee hit a remote-controlled roadside bomb, family members said.
Cantafio and Kirk Straseskie were close friends.
“It throws Kirk’s stuff right back in my face,” John Straseskie said. “It’s always in the back of your mind but you still got to...