
DERBY, Kan. — Robin Hamilton didn’t try to ease into the bad news. The simple truth was that her son, Ryan Cox, wouldn’t be coming back to Derby from Iraq.
“She just flat out told me that Ryan’s not coming home — those were her words,’’ said Ryan Cox’s friend, Aaron Norton. “It hit me like lead. There was a silence, like 20 seconds.’’
Hamilton said her 19-year-old son enlisted in the Marine Corps for its structure, fun and a view of the world. She said she is comforted because those visions came true.
Cox was able to surf and sky dive in California when he wasn’t busy with boot camp or training. On his way to Iraq, he sent a postcard from Ireland....